Encouragement

Elder Holland’s words have always managed to give me encouragement just when I need it most. As I read his address to the BYU students it reminded me of the many challenges I have faced in my own life. These following passages have brought me through some tough times and I want them recorded so that I can look back on them when I need them.

“…by definition, excellence does not come easily or quickly—an excellent education does not, a successful mission does not, a strong, loving marriage does not, rewarding personal relationships do not. It is simply a truism that nothing very valuable can come without significant sacrifice and effort and patience on our part. 

Earlier this week I was just telling my 17-year-old niece just these words. She has had the opportunity to dabble in so many new hobbies, however, when things get tough she tends to lose interest. I reminded her that great things take hard work and perseverance. I told her, “don’t be like me, chasing every squirrel that you see. Stay focused.”

 “And when some of those challenges come, you will have the temptation common to us all to say, “This task is too hard. The burden is too heavy. The path is too long.” And so you decide to quit, simply to give up. Now to terminate certain kinds of tasks is not only acceptable but often very wise. If you are, for example, a flagpole sitter then I say, “Come on down.” But in life’s most crucial and telling tasks, my plea is to stick with it, to persevere, to hang in and hang on, and to reap your reward.”

Currently, I can proudly say that I am highly motivated to finish my degree. I know that as time passes, the courses will only become more difficult, the projects more time consuming, and life itself will become busier with my children as they grow. Holland’s words above and below will remind me to stick with it.

When days are difficult or problems seem unending, I plead with you to stay in the harness and keep pulling. You are entitled to “eat the good of the land of Zion in these last days,” but it will require your heart and a willing mind. It will require that you stay at your post and keep trying.

7 Habits

7 Habits of Highly Effective People

By: Stephen R. Covey

            Out of the 7 habits, the first one made the most impact on me. Covey’s first habit is “Be Proactive”. He defines this first habit, “…being proactive, to actively choose what our response will be in any situation rather than to react blindly.” After reading this, it reminded me of the scripture, 2 Nephi 2:26 – “…And because that they are redeemed from the fall they have become free forever, knowing good from evil; to act for themselves and not to be acted upon…”. In addition, James E. Faust, gave a talk reminding us to “take responsibility for our moral decisions in life”.

            Covey explains further that we (humans) are unique because we have the ability to think about our thought process, we simply don’t have to just react. We have the power to control our thoughts and choose how we will respond to certain situations! Just this aspect alone, made me pause and think about how Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ gave thought to how we should be formed.

            I think the 7 habits will help fill my life with passion and purpose because all the skills build on each other. Covey’s first 3 steps focus on the individual, which is the first important place to begin with self-improvement. Once I am able to accomplish those steps, it will only make it that much easier to focus on the next 3 habits that will help me work with others. After that is achieved, I can move on to the last step, “sharpen the saw”. This last habit allows us to pull everything together and improve the effectiveness of our lives in all areas. By working all these habits, I would be able to help others and work more effectively with them.

Finding Balance

So You Want to be an Entrepreneur?

Out of the readings and videos, I really enjoyed the video “Loyalty to God and Family” because of the advice given. In this video the speaker goes over the importance in balancing your time between work, God, and your family. He reminds us that in the beginning stages of building your business, we will have more time to enjoy hobbies and things of interest. However, he states that as the business grows, your available time will decrease causing you to choose where to allocate it. The following are great pieces of advice he recommends to follow:

·      Never compromise your loyalty to the Lord or your family.

·      Give focus time to God, family, job/work

·      Never be too busy to take a church calling

·      Setting working as a priority shows the Lord where your priorities are

·      Your greatest legacy will be your family and service you give

“Never being too busy to accept a church calling” was probably the biggest one that stood out to me. I was in a ward once where the Young Women’s president was a full-time teacher, mother to 4, and working on her Master’s Degree. She had such little time for anything outside of those responsibilities that I suggested she asked to be released from her calling. I’m glad she didn’t take my advice but instead worked by faith, knowing that the Lord would help her meet her goals.

Another video that echoed the same advice was “The Entrepreneur and the Family”. Valuable take-aways discussed:

·      If you’re single and beginning a Startup, STAY SINGLE!

o   This phase of building your business will require all of your available time.

·      If you have family, set rules and stick to them!

o   Have dinner together

o   Plan weekends with family

Both of these videos resonated how important balance is to maintain. Investing just as much time and effort into your family is just as important if not more because families are eternal.